Profit from the Podium: A Side Income on Stage
Lexi B. on building a public speaking business worth up to 70% of her salary without qu
Most parallel-income stories end with a resignation letter. Lexi B. never wrote one.
She is a big tech executive, and alongside that job she has built a public speaking business that brings in up to 70% of what her corporate salary pays. It started almost by accident: a $600 check to speak to a group of HBCU students visiting Silicon Valley, and a reaction of “for what?” That question was the light bulb.
So she professionalized. Every early dollar went back into the business: a lawyer, a contract, a website, headshots, a speaker kit. She priced her worth on the full body of work behind a keynote rather than the ninety minutes on stage, after a mentor reframed it: the keynote is everything you did to be able to give the keynote, not the time slot.
The Warsaw story is the proof. She paid about $300 out of pocket to speak at a conference that could not cover her fee, because the real offer was a room full of the executives who book speakers. That trip came back at roughly fifteen times her rate. When live events collapsed in 2020, her contracts carried real cancellation terms, so the cancellations became income, and the year became her biggest as a speaker.
What makes this an Owner Mode story is that the leverage flowed back into the day job. Inbound interview requests from people who saw her on a stage. Managers who knew she had options and said so. She built an asset that made her harder to replace, without ever leaving.
His close on ownership is structural. Own your taste. Own your network. Own your point of view. Own your time. The cap table follows the conviction.
Three takeaways from the conversation
Protect the money before you chase the brand
Lexi breaks down the rule a mentor gave her: never get on stage until the fee has cleared. She built contracts that make it enforceable, fifty percent up front and the rest before she goes on. She has stood backstage, checked her banking app, seen nothing, and walked. The craft gets you booked. The business side is what lets you keep the income.
Price the preparation, not the ninety minutes
Lexi describes pricing the time slot until a mentor reframed it: the keynote is not the ninety minutes, it is every year of work that made those ninety minutes worth listening to. The moment she started pricing the whole body of work instead of the clock, her rate changed and so did how she valued herself. Most people undercharge because they only count the hours someone can see.
The most powerful place at any conference is backstage
Lexi’s read is that even if you never get paid to speak, being physically backstage is the move. The people back there assume you belong, so you walk in with standing before anyone knows your name, and the bookers and organizers are the ones next to you. The fee was never the real return. The room behind the stage was.
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About this guest
Lexi B. is a Technology Executive and Public Speaker. She runs a six-figure speaking business charging up to $30,000 per keynote, hosts her own podcast, and is a top creator in the LinkedIn Accelerator Program. She is the founder of SisterCircle, a network of more than 10,000 Black women in tech, and has held leadership roles at Twitter and Facebook. She trained as a stage performer from age 5 to 17.
Resources
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